Thanks to everyone for the emails, comments, good thoughts and prayers. Jackie is doing well. He’s still in ICU because they don’t have a regular room for him, but things look good.
I know he’s probably going to get very bored before he feels like doing his normal stuff, but I feel he will make a complete recovery. If you scroll down a few entries you’ll see him working on my Christmas Tree stand just three weeks ago. We had no idea then he was a ticking time bomb, with a 100% and a 65% blockage in his heart. It was one of those “silver lining” things that he fell at the construction site because that’s how they found those. Had the heart attack happened somewhere other than the hospital he probably wouldn’t have survived.
I haven’t been posting, other than to the updates on him page, because that is what I’ve been doing. I’ve been staying at the hospital at night when there wasn’t a reason that Mary Ann wanted to be there. She wanted to stay the night before and immediately following surgery, of course. But, otherwise, I’ve stayed every night since I got here until tonight. Tonight her friend, Janice, is staying, and I’m going to rest a bit. Needless to say, the amount of good, solid sleep you get in a hospital waiting room is not great.But I’ve been very glad I could help out by staying some. This is one of those times when it feels good to be part of a family that pulls together. I’ve been coming home in the afternoon and napping a bit and going back to stay at night and I’ve made it fine, but I do need to rest a bit before I start the 12 hour drive home.
I am headed back to Kansas this weekend. Obviously, I have things I need to take care of there and I think things here are going well. Also, I think it will be easier for Mary Ann and Jackie if I’m not here when Jackie comes home. Having someone else in your house requires some adjustment, regardless of how “normal” it is to have them around. I think it will be easier for them to come home and get into a routine without me being part of it and then them having to readjust when I leave. But, it doesn’t look like he’s going to be coming home before I go back anyway – but probably soon after – so that will all work out.